Behaviour Mentor – SEMH - Barnet

Date Posted: Thursday 20 August 2026

, Ref: 13819

Behaviour Mentor – SEMH | Barnet

Barnet, North London
£100–£120 per day, depending on experience
8:30am–4:00pm | Full-time | Term-time

Behaviour is often communication.

A pupil who refuses a lesson, walks out of a classroom or reacts strongly to a situation may be communicating something they do not yet have the skills or confidence to express differently.

Parker Smith Inclusion is recruiting a Behaviour Mentor in Barnet to support children and young people who require additional help with engagement, emotional regulation and behaviour.

This role would particularly suit someone who can remain calm under pressure, build relationships gradually and maintain clear boundaries without becoming confrontational.

What will you be doing?

  • Building positive and consistent relationships with pupils

  • Supporting engagement with lessons and school routines

  • Helping pupils recognise and manage emotions

  • Providing individual and small-group support

  • Using agreed behaviour and regulation strategies

  • Supporting pupils following difficult incidents

  • Encouraging appropriate choices and problem-solving

  • Helping pupils rebuild engagement rather than simply removing them from learning

  • Working alongside teachers, pastoral teams and SEND staff

  • Recording concerns and following safeguarding procedures

Essential

  • Experience working with children, young people or vulnerable groups

  • Confidence responding calmly to challenging behaviour

  • Strong boundaries and communication skills

  • Reliability and emotional resilience

  • The ability to avoid taking behaviour personally

  • A clear commitment to safeguarding

Desirable

  • Previous Behaviour Mentor or SEMH Teaching Assistant experience

  • Experience within alternative provision, SEND, youth work or pastoral support

  • Experience supporting pupils at risk of disengagement or exclusion

  • Knowledge of trauma-informed or restorative approaches

  • Relevant mentoring, coaching, psychology, youth work or education experience

Sports coaches, youth workers, mentors and candidates from similar backgrounds can often bring valuable transferable skills to behaviour support.

Why behaviour mentoring?

The role is not about being the strictest adult in the room.

Successful behaviour mentors are often those who can combine warmth with clear expectations and understand that trust is built through consistency over time.

Helping a young person return to learning, repair a relationship or manage a situation differently can have a lasting impact on their education.

Parker Smith Inclusion

We specialise exclusively in SEND and inclusion recruitment.

We will always be transparent about the type of behaviour, setting and expectations involved before presenting you for a position.

You can expect specialist advice, honest communication and ongoing support throughout your placement.

Apply

If you are looking for a Behaviour Mentor, SEMH Teaching Assistant or Behaviour Support role in Barnet, working 8:30am–4:00pm and paying £100–£120 per day depending on experience, apply today.

I would be happy to discuss your background and whether this type of environment would suit your strengths.

Safeguarding: Successful candidates will be subject to appropriate safeguarding checks, employment references and an enhanced DBS check where required.

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